Tears in a Bottle

A safe haven for wounded hearts.

Some signs of neglect July 8, 2008

Filed under: About Child Abuse — tearsinabottle @ 11:07 pm
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I found a pretty good website with information about child abuse.  I’ll use that information to go through the major symptoms and causes of child abuse.  

It’s never an easy decision to report suspected abuse or neglect.  I’m quoting from the following website in the hopes that it might help someone make decisions in the best interests of a child.  Legally people in some professions are obligated reporters of child abuse and neglect.  Morally all human beings are obligated to protect children.  

 

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/child_abuse_physical_emotional_sexual_neglect.htm

Some signs of child neglect:

  • Clothes that are dirty, ill-fitting, ragged, and/or not suitable for the weather
  • Unwashed appearance; offensive body odor
  • Indicators of hunger: asking for or stealing food, going through trash for food, eating too fast or too much when food is provided for a group
  • Apparent lack of supervision: wandering alone, home alone, left in a car
  • Colds, fevers, or rashes left untreated; infected cuts; chronic tiredness
  • In schoolchildren, frequent absence or lateness; troublesome, disruptive behavior or its opposite, withdrawal
  • In babies, failure to thrive; failure to relate to other people or to surroundings

A single occurrence of one of these indicators isn’t necessarily a sign of child neglect, but a pattern of behaviors may demonstrate a lack of care that constitutes abuse.

 

Who to Call for Help June 20, 2008

The Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline:      1-800-4-A-CHILD

Call this number for help if you are  1) a victim of child abuse     2) a survivor of child abuse     3) an abuser or someone who is afraid they may abuse a child     4) a witness of child abuse or someone who suspects a child is being abused .  Your call is anonymous.

 

The Fragrance of Hope May 13, 2008

Filed under: My Friend — tearsinabottle @ 2:59 am
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When I was a teenager we moved to a house that was dark, old, run down and depressing.  It was infested with mice and bugs and there was no place for me to sleep.  The problems I was having at school paled in comparison to the unspeakable problems I was having at home.  It took every bit of faith and courage I could muster to make it through each day.  But it was around that time the that lilacs began to bloom.  There were several large lilac bushes in the yard and as the blossoms opened a message of hope drifted out with their perfume.  The message whispered deep within me, ‘hold on Lisa, things will get better.’ 

Simone Weil wrote, Only two things can pierce the human heart.  One is beauty.  The other is affliction.  In my life those two piercings often follow one so closely behind the other that they blur together in remembrance.  Things did get better.  Now many years later as the lilacs once again spread their petals and once again overwhelm me with the fragrance of hope I once again thank God for His love and faithfulness to messed up girls like me.